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The way schools react is important The most effective thing that a school can do to reduce bullying is to have a
policy outlining how the issue is raised within the curriculum, and how incidents are
dealt with after they have happened i.e. the policy must acknowledge the need for both
pro-active and re-active strategies. But no school has the answer to every problem, and no
single method can be used to deal with all bullying incidents.
The way in which adults react to bullying contributes to the
ethos of the school and can help to make it more or less likely that bullying will happen
in future. Ignoring the problem encourages it to flourish. A heavy-handed approach can
drive it underground. However, a positive, open response will encourage young people to
speak up about matters that concern them and will improve the learning environment by
promoting more caring and responsible patterns of behaviour.
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Which strategies are best? Schools are getting better at dealing with bullying but it will be some time
before a quick resolution of all incidents can be guaranteed. Sometimes all that is needed
is a simple word or two from a teacher to make children realise that what they are doing
is wrong. At the other extreme some bullying remains intactable. The development of new
ideas continues and all it is possible to do at the moment is to list some of the
strategies for which success has been claimed and to provide a few words of commentary on
each.
- Punishments such as suspension or expulsion
can mark the seriousness with which an episode of bullying is viewed and can also help to
provide a safer environment for victims. It also has to be recognised that some types of
bullying are crimes. Schools are subject to the law of the land so the possibility of
punishment in response to very serious incidents cannot be denied. However, the great
majority of bullying goes unpunished so some new ways of helping the thousands of hidden
victims of bullying are needed.
- Assertive discipline - a method developed the
United States which involves a rigid system of rewards and sanctions consistently applied
by all teachers in a school. It is claimed that this method helps to motivate learning and
to reduce the level of classroom indiscipline, but its effectiveness in coping with
bullying is not clear.
- Bully boxes - a simple method whereby
youngsters can put their concerns on paper and post them in a "bully box". What
happens to these notes is the key to the success or failure of this technique. Can genuine
comments be distinguished from frivolous or malicious ones?
- Bully courts - the idea that young people
should play a part in making school rules and in deciding what should happen to those who
break them is not new. Some progressive schools introduced councils to do this over fifty
years ago. More recently a few schools have tried to establish courts or councils solely
to deal with cases of bullying. However, the principle that young people should sit in
judgement on their peers, and punish wrongdoers remains controversial. What is clear is
that adults must play an active and guiding role in such proceedings in order to protect
the welfare of all the young people involved.
- Counselling - a teacher or another adult may
have the skills and time to offer support to young people involved in bullying. Both
bullies and victims can benefit from this process. The main problems are that it is time
consuming, the youngsters must take part voluntarily and there is a lack of trained
counsellors in schools.
- Mediation - some schools have introduced
schemes where two parties to a relationship problem agree that a third person, who may be
either an adult or another young person, helps to negotiate a solution. This seems to be
helpful in many situations, especially where there is not too large an imbalance of power
between the protagonists - but not in all cases of bullying. A bully may refuse to take
part because he or she has no interest in ending the bullying. A victim may feel that a
negotiated solution is not appropriate when it is the other person who is entirely in
the wrong.
- Peer counselling - a small number of
secondary schools have used older teenagers as peer counsellors. Good training and
continuing support is vital if these young volunteers are to be able to help victims who
may be quite seriously distressed.
- The 'no blame' approach - a step by step
technique which allows early intervention because it does not require that anyone should
be proved to be at fault. A group of young people, which includes bystanders as well as
possible bullies, is made aware of a victim's distress and is asked to suggest solutions.
This approach is particularly useful in dealing with group bullying and name-calling, when
it may be difficult to use more traditional remedies.
- The 'shared concern' method - a Swedish
technique which has much in common with the "No blame" approach, although it has
not been widely used in Britain, perhaps because it is more elaborate and time consuming.
Both of these methods have been criticised for failing to allocate blame but both aim to
encourage bullies to accept responsibility for their actions as well as bringing the
bullying to an end.
- "Solution focused approaches" share
much of the philosophy of the previous two strategies but can be applied to problems other
than bullying. This is helpful because the task of finding out the facts of an incident
and then of making a judgement about whether it should be called bullying or not is
sometimes impossible. Relationship problems amongst a group of children can be very
complicated indeed. They can also be very damaging to the personal development and
education of some of the individuals involved. Being able to intervene without wasting too
much time trying to untangle emotional knots has obvious attractions for busy teachers.
- Reporting systems - it is most important that
schools should have efficient ways of recording reports of serious bullying so that a
check can be kept of patterns of behaviour. This can also help to ensure that incidents
are not overlooked.
- "Safe rooms" have been set up in
some schools at break and lunch times as a refuge for bullied children. Although this may
provide safety in the short term, it could have the effect of making the rest of the
school seem even more hostile to the children who use it.
- Telephone help lines - services such as
ChildLine provide valuable support to children who are afraid to speak out about bullying.
However, the fact that they exist is a signal that some schools are failing to provide
conditions in which children are able to discuss their problems openly. One or two schools
have set up their own internal help lines in an attempt to increase the opportunities for
worried children to seek help.
- Talk - no strategy will be effective unless
all members of the school community, pupils, parents, teachers and others, are prepared to
talk about bullying openly and seriously.
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Read this A useful book for teachers and others is:
Bullying in Schools and what to do about it
by Ken Rigby, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, 1997.
Some of the information in this sheet has been adapted from a
small book which offers advice to families who are concerned about bullying:
Bullying at School - advice for families by
Andrew Mellor, Scottish Council for Research in Education, 1997.
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